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Dealing with Depression
Dealing with depression can be a challenging situation. It can even be hard for some people to realize they might be facing it. Everyone deals with the challenges of life in different ways. The same situation can lead to depression in some people and not in others. Even discussing depression can be difficult because how people think about it is unique to each person.
There are many avenues to discuss mental health with professionals. Talking with your healthcare provider is a great start. There are even options online for information gathering. A good source is the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation including Dr. Dan who provides insights that are extremely helpful. The most important lesson is that everyone has a unique way of dealing with paralysis and depression.
First and foremost, depression should be acknowledged as a condition just like an infection, a broken bone or paralysis. Through the years, when mental healthcare was not well understood, depression was not well diagnosed or treated. Advancements in mental health issues has demonstrated that depression is a condition that has certain characteristics and can be treated.
The American Psychiatric Association lists the following symptoms of depression:
- Feeling sad or having a depressed mood
- Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed
- Changes in appetite — weight loss or gain unrelated to dieting
- Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much
- Loss of energy or increased fatigue
- Increase in purposeless physical activity (e.g., hand-wringing or pacing) or slowed movements and speech (actions observable by others)
- Feeling worthless or guilty
- Difficulty thinking, concentrating or making decisions
- Thoughts of death or suicide
To be considered depression, any or a combination of the above symptoms are typically present for two weeks or longer. Depression can affect loss of interest in activities that were once enjoyed, affect work, or home life.
Depression is different from being sad. Sadness is a temporary condition of feeling loss, or grief. Depression lasts longer. Sadness can evolve into depression. You might need the skills of an expert to help you distinguish between sadness, grief of a loss of function or depression. The symptoms for each condition are close to the same. You could be experiencing a prolonged phase of grief or sadness or depression can set in earlier than the two-week diagnostic parameter.
There are risk factors for depression. The makeup of a person’s brain or the consistency and way the chemicals in the brain function, can make some people more vulnerable to depression. This is not a failure or problem with anyone’s way of thinking. It is just the natural differences in individuals. Just as you have a unique facial structure or hair color, everyone’s brain works just very slightly different from others. This subtle difference can make the risk of depression higher or less for you.
Genetics is another risk factor. Depression tends to be more pronounced in some families. This might be due to those subtle differences in brain chemistry or perhaps in the ways you have learned to deal with situations or a combination of both. We inherit the physical and emotional attributes of our families.
Along with genetics, personality affects risk of depression. People who have low self-esteem or pessimists tend to have a higher risk of depression. If you always see the negative, you are more apt to have depression. Changing your way of viewing the world does not mean you will be able to reduce your risk. It can help, but a true change does not come easily.
Environmental factors also affect your risk of depression. Being in situations without the ability to escape will shape your mental ability. For example, if you are in a cycle of poverty that you cannot escape because you did not receive a solid education or have the money for proper nutrition, you might not be able to see positive outcomes for yourself or your family.
Any kind of paralysis, from disease, stroke or trauma, is a life altering event. Mortality is questioned. Changes in physical abilities occur. Loss can be displayed as grief. These are just a few of the consequences of such a huge change in your life. Work might be altered. Family life and dynamics can change. This is a combination of events that can lead to extreme emotional upheaval. Recovery from paralysis can take a long time. Combine these factors and you can see that depression is not unusual.
You may not recognize depression in yourself. Personally, I have had life situations where my own healthcare professional has said, you certainly have enough reasons and situations in your life to be depressed. Indeed, life’s situations can add up. This is called situational depression. Remove the person from the situation and the depression resolves. Unfortunately, some situations cannot be removed.
The good news is that depression is a treatable condition. The first step is to talk with your healthcare provider. Ask for a screening. Be as honest as possible. Your thoughts and feelings are exactly that-YOURS. It does not matter what others think or say. You know what is in your heart and mind. Report as accurately as possible what you are feeling. This is not the time to be ‘strong’ for someone else or the time to repeat how someone else thinks you should be feeling. This is the time to let your true self come through. That is the best way to receive the treatment that is right for you.
It can be hard to acknowledge your thoughts and feelings. Thinking about a situation in your life is a positive step. Really take time to think about the issue and the outcomes that go with it. You can even pick a specific time to do this. Some people might tell you not to think about the thing that is bothering you the most, as if not thinking about it will make it go away. It doesn’t. Allow time to think, to cry, to grieve. You might want to do this in private or with someone. But put a stop time about the thinking as well. This does not mean the issue will not be with you or that it will magically disappear. Just don’t let the issue consume your whole life.
Remember, too, that those around you might be depressed about your situation or the new life challenges they now face. Paralysis affects you but also those who love you. Family members, children, friends can be responding to you through their depression. Recognizing how the depression of others affects you is important to your well being.
There are many medications that can help with depression. Some people resist taking medication for depression but remember, depression is an alteration in your brain chemistry. Adjusting that chemistry can help reduce the alteration. The medication will not change your personality or dull your thinking. You will still be you, my friend. There can be side effects such as drowsiness, but side effects resolve or can be corrected with a dosage adjustment or even a different medication. It does take time for the medication to become effective. You might not notice a change for several weeks.
Psychotherapy, especially Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, is a good treatment along with medication. This therapy can assist with learning new coping behaviors that will assist you with dealing with challenges now and in the future. Sometimes electroconvulsive therapy or magnetic therapy can help adjust the brain chemicals as well.
There are activities that will help you daily with depression. These include movement of your body. Providing movement, even passive movement, improves symptoms of depression. Your body craves movement so find a way to engage all of your body through moving it. Your body also needs nourishment. Eating a healthy diet will provide the energy it needs. Keeping hydrated will assist with internal body function and internal movement. Researchers are discovering more of the benefits of sleep every day. It can be difficult to get a solid night’s sleep when you have turning and catheterizing to do. Plan your schedule to include a period of sleep in the middle of the night.
Reduce caffeine, a stimulant, so you can sleep better. Stop the use of nicotine which deprives your body of needed oxygen for function. Avoid alcohol and other depressant drugs, which counteracts your hard work to reduce your depression.
Treating depression is just as important as treating a urinary tract infection or monitoring for pressure injury. It is critical to your health and progress. Be sure to ask for a depression screening at your annual physical to start early treatment if needed.
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